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(no subject) [Nov. 16th, 2009|05:43 pm]

_dancecommander
Yesterday I played Dragon age for, like, 13 hours @.@

I haven't been into a game this bad in forevveerrrr. I am eating a quick meal and checking my email before I settle in for 8 hours of gameplay! Woooooo

Off to go fuck this sexy motherfucker.




edit: Also I should add that this weekend is going to rule. Sissy is coming up, we're going to see FINAL FANTASY (the band, not the game) and watch New Moon! EXCITEMENT!
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(no subject) [Nov. 16th, 2009|11:21 am]

nenapincho

... )
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(no subject) [Nov. 15th, 2009|01:52 pm]

mozart
I cant decide just yet, but I think i want to go back to blonde :3 I am bored, and blonde gave me so much more to do with my hair. But I have just finally cut off most of the bleach damage from before and gotten my hair mostly healthy and its about half natural color now.

And bleaching is so expensive, not just initially but on all the subsequent bleaching and toning to get it less yellow.

I dunno.





eh eh eh eh
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Sunday Secrets [Nov. 15th, 2009|12:06 am]
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(no subject) [Nov. 14th, 2009|11:23 am]

illustrated

[misswithers]
Paper cutting illustrations )
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a transgender exercise [Nov. 14th, 2009|01:44 am]

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[music |Albert Hammond Jr. - GFC | Powered by Last.fm]

Here is a scenario I proposed to some of my male friends ...

You are a few weeks away from marrying your dream woman. She is perfect in every way - looks, personality, intellect - she has it all. Your relationship is stable and awesome. Everything seems to be coming up roses for you two. You could hardly imagine someone to be more perfect for you than her. Then, she reveals that she is a post-op transwoman. She says that she has always known that she was a girl and believed to be born in the wrong body. Ten years ago, she underwent sex reassignment surgery along with hormone treatments. She has no hints of masculinity and you've had sex with her before and never noticed anything "artificial" about her genitalia, breasts, voice, etc. In other words, had she not told you, you would have never known that she is not a ciswoman. Would you call off the wedding?

I only had a sample of three but they all said yes! I emphasized that she is the DREAM woman and they said that she wouldn't be their dream woman if she wasn't biologically female.

Then, I proposed a second scenario ...

What if you are in the same position as before but now your perfect woman reveals that she has androgen insensitivity syndrome (AIS)? A person with AIS has XY chromosomes but because of a gene mutation, she doesn't react to a hormone that would otherwise cause her to become male. Thus, a penis never develops and testes do not descend. Externally, she cannot be differentiated from an XX female. Again, she says that she has always thought of herself as a girl. It was only when she hit puberty and failed to start menstruation that it was discovered that she was supposed to be a he. She got her underdeveloped testes removed and continued her life as a woman. Would you call off the wedding?

This time, two of them said no and one of them refused to answer out of supposed frustration. I asked the cooperative two what the difference between the two women was. They look, act, and are the exact same at this point in time. They reconsidered! They said that they would probably still go through with the marriage in either scenario.

Interestingly, no one mentioned childbearing as a problem. So the issue was entirely that she was born biologically male and the "ickyness" of transpeople. One of them said that he would prefer the transwoman to keep her past a secret.


So what of you, livejournal friends? Would you call off the marriage in either scenario?
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(no subject) [Nov. 14th, 2009|03:06 am]

pictography

[foamtricot]



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(no subject) [Nov. 14th, 2009|02:49 am]
loocy
sorry, not interested.
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The magic of keys [Nov. 14th, 2009|12:00 am]

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Originally published at a.funnytimeofyear.com. You can comment here or there.

20091113

Keys have always played an important role in my life. I sometimes think it embarrassing how my love for keys came about, but such is the case with childhood memories and behaviour as you grow older. During the period where I was living in Barcelona with my family (around age 7/8), I became entirely engrossed in the magic behind keys. I say it is embarrassing because where most children would play with not only expensive toys, but each other, I become entirely interested in being alone and feeding my imagination with stories of giant castle doors that could only be opened by my key. My parents had made friends with a local bar owner, Juan, and we would often visit Juan’s Bar in the evening where my parents would socialise, and my brother and I would have the opportunity to meet the other children. I distinctly remember walking past a bollard and on top of it was this random key, balancing. I picked it up and became convinced that someone had left it there, bronze and smooth, for me to discover its magical powers. I remember being entirely content racing around the city, and much so when I returned home, with my magical key.

My mother always had a huge set of keys hanging in the hallway. The kind of keys that open grand church doors, a dirty deep bronze colour that when held up to child-sized hand, would dwarf them. I would often pick them up, jingling them and listening to heavy clunking sound of them, wondering what wonders they could give a person access to. There are few symbols that I find interesting (although I do love pi), but keys seem to jump out of me at every opportunity. I’m sure I’m not the only one that’s out there collecting keys of all sizes. I often wear a necklace of two/three small, beautifully crafted keys (as seen in this photo).

I have been thinking more and more about keys, and how I can work them into my skin, my being. Whilst I don’t mind tattoos on other people, I’m not interested in them myself. The idea of putting something (ink) into my skin, forever, is a really unsettling thought. However, the concept of scarification, or more specifically branding, is something that I have been thinking about for a long time but with no concrete idea of how I would like it to work. Becca, long time key and scar lover also (check out this photo of both her key & scar), recommended that I take a trip to see Quentin at Kalima Emporium to check out their diathermic branding. I think I may well do this.. The magic of keys continues.

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Martha Wainwright sings Piaf [Nov. 13th, 2009|01:17 pm]

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Originally published at a.funnytimeofyear.com. You can comment here or there.

I am a huge Martha Wainwright fan and after seeing her in Brighton many years ago, as well as at Glastonbury, I’ve been committed to trying to catch up with her whenever she’s in the UK. This time, however, I had a pleasant surprise when I discovered that her performance was a dedication to Edith Piaf, France’s most famous singer. Being that I am also a Piaf fan, off I went with Lady C to The Barbican to see what Martha had in store for us. It was the perfect warm-up, considering I’m going to Paris for the weekend.

Written for Spoonfed:

Martha Wainwright, taken in 2004

The mere possibility of anyone pulling off the raw emotion of Edith Piaf seems remote yet Martha Wainwright, an accomplished singer-songwriter in her own right, manages to pour out the strength and vulnerability that many of us know Piaf for. The vibrant personality that she brings to each track comes as a surprise from someone who when first approached by producer Hal Willner, wasn’t particularly taken with the idea of a dedication to one of the greats.

Piaf, arguably one of the greatest singers in the world, has long been recognised as France’s finest singer. Her rags-to-riches life story, saturated with tragedy and pain, saw her rocket from a street singer in Pigalle, Paris, to achieving lasting fame with her performances at the capital’s most famous venue: Paris Olympia. It seems fitting that Wainwright, who is no stranger to confessional, fiercely emotional songs of unrequited love, should take on and breathe new life into the words of a broken Piaf.
Though Piaf’s lyrics are in French, to understand the words to her songs is purely a bonus. This sentiment is echoed Martha herself who confesses to not doing much research into each song, and despite stumbling over the words of some tracks, it’s the musical arrangement and the character, the pain within each song that is understood universally. Despite hailing from French-Canadian Montreal, French isn’t Wainwright’s first language, but her attempt to cover songs as difficult as these is instantly admirable. Before each song she provides the crowd with a short translation drenched in cynical wit – stories of hookers, men, and of course, the loss of love. Wainwright’s performances are painfully emotive. Whilst she may not emulate Piaf physically – heavily pregnant in a colourful striped sparkly dress reminiscent of a liquorice allsort – her voice, so entrenched with an understanding of the subject matter, that lends itself so perfectly to the feeling of Piaf. Whilst all other factors may differ, the desire for love, and the observation of that love lost, remains present in both of their lives.
It’s interesting to note that many of Piaf’s greatest songs are absent tonight. This is a deliberate decision by Wainwright who was concerned that another mainstream revival shortly after the release of the Oscar winning biopic film ‘La Vie En Rose’, could incite limited interest. Hal Willner’s determination to produce a successful dedication record saw him provide Wainwright with 300 Piaf songs, allowing her to sift through and become further acquainted with the Piaf she thought she knew so well. This said it is tracks such as ‘La Foule’, with its waltzing accordion tempo that hasve not only myself, but half of the audience swinging from side to side, eyes closed, taken in the moment. The product of these combined efforts, ‘Sans Fusils, Ni Souliers, A Paris’, recorded in New York, is Martha’s latest album offering.

Wainwright’s set finishes with an acknowledgement of the financial depression as she performs her version of ‘Can You Spare a Dime, Brother?’ before spilling over into a low-key version of everyone’s favourite, the classic ‘La Vie En Rose’ that has the crowds mumbling lalalas until the lights come up…

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(no subject) [Nov. 12th, 2009|06:26 pm]

bellahdance
About that last post.

So I went to download that torrent shit - and my hard drive fucking crashed. [I don't blame any of you at all - it might have been coincidental. Who knows.*]

Long story boring:

-I had to buy a new computer.
-My car broke down and I had to pay to patch it back up.
-Got plane tickets to meet Logan's family this Christmas in South Carolina.
-And of course, I got vehicle registration stuff in the mail. $90.

I'm so broke and sad and want to go live as a hermit.




*I don't like the look of proper punctuation there

Also, that four days I just spent in the hospital - the bill came to $32,000. They literally took some blood tests, gave me an MRI, and some antibiotics. [I refused Crohn's medication - which would have hiked up the price like a bitch.]

Thank God for my dad's insurance. I'm terrified of getting older and not having my own. HERMIT.
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Posters [Nov. 12th, 2009|11:27 pm]

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Originally published at a.funnytimeofyear.com. You can comment here or there.

Granada, May 2009.

20091112a
20091112b
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(no subject) [Nov. 12th, 2009|02:13 pm]

mozart
A new petticoat & skirt in the shop!



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New York 12/12 [Nov. 12th, 2009|04:42 am]

i_seldom_do

my first show in New York is coming up next month!
titled 'Hajimari. a prelude'.
December 12th through January 9th.
opening reception Dec. 12th 7~9pm
@ the Jonathan Levine Gallery.

will feature 20 new works.
im still at work but should wrap things up within the week.
excited and nervous all together. eeep! (@_@)
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(no subject) [Nov. 12th, 2009|04:31 am]

i_seldom_do

Sketch Theatre just uploaded the time lapse video of the Baby Tattooville Art Jam,
where about a dozen artists collaborated on a single 4x5foot canvas for 24 hours.
its pretty fun to see the whole process!
check it HERE.

the Sketch Theatre site also features many notable artists,
where you can watch videos of them drawing. its all very inspiring!
check it out HERE!
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Honeybees. [Nov. 5th, 2009|06:19 pm]

blackcigarette

[prekrassnyi]
[music |Shivers - Beauty]



Oh, hello. I'm not-exactly-new but I've never gotten around to posting an introduction. Anyway, I'm sure I'll correct that later.

I'm reading 'The Hive: The Story of the Honeybee and Us' by Bee Wilson which describes the history of honey, honeybees and the human relationship to them. Honey has been described as the food of the gods and that honeybees could gather it (they didn't understand it was bee spit back then) because they were human souls reincarnated which seems like an impossibly lovely thing to believe. Less tasty are the stories about how honey was used to perserve dormice by the Romans and beeswax was used to reviginise ladies of ill-repute.

She also talks about all the wonderful different types of honey and how they are also affected by the flowers and place they are made. I'm going on a search for some tupelo honey tomorrow! I've only had acacia which apparently is a very mild honey...but I love the idea of how you can taste the place honey came from when you eat it.

This got me thinking about how many other foodstuffs that people claim to be conessiours of so my question is: what are your food passions? What combinations make you curl up your toes in bliss? Do you make your own jam or brew your own beer (or mead!)? What makes you go 'hmmm'? Are these things seasonal or not?
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(no subject) [Nov. 5th, 2009|09:50 pm]

blackcigarette

[crotch_rock_it]
Another halloween post!

I spent halloween in Manayunk,PA where my friends had an art show.She does sculptures and special effects makeup,he tattoos and paints.Good times were had.

Just wanted to share some pictures!

hur it go )
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I love this quote. [Nov. 11th, 2009|11:35 pm]

_dancecommander
"Isn't it enough to see that a garden is beautiful without having to believe that there are fairies at the bottom of it too?"


I've decided that instead of being sad with my issues, I'm excited to fix them. And you know what? I am.
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for enemies [Nov. 11th, 2009|08:40 pm]

mozart
Oh, it's that time of the year when I can finally torrent the newest HP movie and watch it over and over and post caps!

I still think it's the biggest shame that they didn't put Snape roaring about not being a coward into the film, I always thought, in the books, it was his strongest and most telling moment outside of pensieve memories - in the book you could feel Snape's hurt & anger over having to do what he did, but in the movie you just get this lost, sad feeling from it & I like to think Snape is a good measure angry over the way his life has runs it's course, not just sad about it.





behind cut )
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Music! [Nov. 10th, 2009|09:37 pm]

_dancecommander
[mood |musical]
[music |Bright Eyes]

I just found some new CDs I'm really into so I thought I'd share them with you guys. Download link is below the name.

--Bat For Lashes-Two Suns
http://www.megaupload.com/?d=9XNF25M8

I know she's pretty popular, but I never gave her a chance until recently. It's like I'm listening to Goth music I don't have to be ashamed of.


--Miri Ben Ari- Hip Hop Violinist
http://www.megaupload.com/?d=J2J0ZO5L

I don't normally like rap, but.. there's a badass violin! It's awesome!

If you wanna download these, know they're .rars, and need to be extracted with winrar or something similar. Yay!


In other news: OMG RPATTZ AND KSTEW ARE TOGETHER F'REAL
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Dreads [Nov. 11th, 2009|02:41 pm]

oops_ikilledher
[mood |Coughy!]
[music |mundo - Souljah (NOT SOULJA BOY *vomit*)]

Hooray! So i'm completing the 2nd stage of my dreadlock maintenance this friday, and today I have discovered another hairstyle that suits quite well! I will post a picture later. I need to get my camping gear ready for my outdoor party on saturday :D definitely can't wait till electric picnic.
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Self (purple) [Nov. 11th, 2009|12:29 am]

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Originally published at a.funnytimeofyear.com. You can comment here or there.

Purple. Not a colour I’d normally go for, but what the heck.

Self
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i'm done! [Nov. 10th, 2009|09:42 pm]

illustrated

[slitrin]
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Technical Help [Nov. 9th, 2009|11:13 pm]

bellahdance
[if this isn't allowed feel free to delete - i just figured someone here might have dealt with this same link]

I have no idea what a torrent is - or anything - so bare with me.

Might anyone be able to help me out?

I'm on a huge audiobook kick - and can't seem to find Stephen King's Desperation as an audiobook anywhere but here.

It says "Download this torrent!" Is that seriously just a file that is the Desperation audiobook? Is it safe to download that Vuze program mentioned right below?


Also - Stephen King audiobooks [even used CD's/Audible/whatever] are so damned expensive. Any suggestions for other places to get his audiobooks?
Thanks!
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Technical Help - TORRENTS? [Nov. 9th, 2009|11:04 pm]

bellahdance
I have no idea what a torrent is - or anything - so bare with me.

Might anyone be able to help me out?

I'm on a huge audiobook kick - and can't seem to find Stephen King's Desperation as an audiobook anywhere but here.

It says "Download this torrent!" Is that seriously just a file that is the Desperation audiobook? Is it safe to download that Vuze program mentioned right below?


Thanks!
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(no subject) [Nov. 10th, 2009|01:09 am]

_like_weeds
pumpkin granola, and ginger almond and cashew granola, with freeze dried blueberries and soymilk.

2 cups of coffee with soymilk but I'm cutting down on caffeine effective immediately.

two slices of whole grain bread, toasted, one with hummus and tomatoes and salt and black pepper , the other with almond butter and sliced apples and cinnamon. no sugar on that.

a grande ginger twist tea w/ 2 sugar in the raw, a small bite of a vegan chocolate chip cookie.

then late, had one cup of trader joe's garden veggie soup, with a generous amount of chana masala spice, and one small clementine.

I dunno if that's enough food or if its too many carbs, idk.
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Weekend Recap [Nov. 9th, 2009|09:26 pm]

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Originally published at a.funnytimeofyear.com. You can comment here or there.

Sunshine through clouds

The initial weekend plans kind of got left behind, sadly, but I still had a lovely weekend and I keep thinking back about things and smiling to myself, all a bit smug. After a terrible journey to Brighton I finally arrived to meet a nice boy. Went out for some delicious Japanese food (favourite) and had some champagne and nice times. Our sunrise adventure was aborted after the utter downpour on Friday night. Had sushi for breakfast (double favourite) and then with full intentions of taking some wonderful photographs, we headed off to Seven Sisters to explore the forests. After cramming on to a bus packed with nobody under the age of fifty, the bus promptly broke down in the rather weird little seaside village that is Rottingdean. Deciding against hanging around with the oldies for the next bus we had a mini Tuaca pub-crawl before settling for the afternoon in what was the epitome of a strange rural pub.

The day just got weirder and weirder. After finding out that they had a “meat raffle” I was totally into it! I’d never heard of a meat raffle before! Of course it’s totally confusing because I don’t understand why people don’t just go and buy the meat, but I thought it was really weird that people used meat as a prize, as opposed to a bottle of champagne or something equally as traditional. One of my favourite hobbies is just watching people and listening to conversations, so when two neighbouring tables started competing to see who could show off about their previous meat winnings I thought it a little hilarious. “Well we had the pork. And the chicken!” .. “Well we had the beef. It was gorgeous, GORGEOUS!” We didn’t win any meat, but needless to say we were inspired to have a good slab of pork when we got in…

After battling with ourselves about whether to go out or not (I was so tired, still got demon cough and was beginning to lose my voice), we decided to do something we hadn’t done before: go to a strip club! My old housemate is a stripper and ever since her moving in I kept meaning to go down to the club to see what all the fuss is about. I think since I saw a scene from Striptease when I was younger, I’ve always been really interested in pole dancing. I find it fascinating! It’s such a good sport – you’ve got to be really strong to hold yourself, yet also move fluidly to make it sexy (something I’ve not quite mastered yet). The club in itself was nothing like I expected it to be – I thought it’d be incredibly sleazy. The strangest thing was watching naked people being so overtly sexy, but being there in a completely non-sexual manner. I even got a special dance to ‘Daniel’ by Bat For Lashes which was great. Admittedly, I did freak out when a girl came and stroked my thigh and I thought I was going to cry with embarrassment and told her I was just here to see a friend. Most of the time I was just thinking, that’s a nice skirt she’s got on..

On the way home last night I had a big smile on my face and couldn’t stop thinking about the wonderful things that keep happening. I’m really super excited about going to Paris this weekend. To get myself in the French mood I’ll be seeing Martha Wainwright performing a dedication to Edith Piaf on Wednesday. Time to start planning places to go on the trip. Any ideas welcome!

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Daylight savings for president [Nov. 9th, 2009|10:16 pm]
realskin


We watched the sun go down on Scotland )
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Gutless [Nov. 9th, 2009|08:14 pm]

intricate_wish
On the outside i am calm and numb, on the inside i am screaming. I have no fucking idea what happens next.. I want to end it all, solve the puzzle quite literally. But I am too damn curious as to what happens next.
In light of the obvious, I am looking forward to those days post travels, my gut wrenching for three weeks not knowing if he is ok. I hope he has the same feelings. I wish I could just be settled already.
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(no subject) [Nov. 9th, 2009|02:31 am]

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[ren_geek]
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say it ain't so! [Nov. 9th, 2009|01:32 am]

comicbooklovers

[missingkitsune]
i think i'll be traumatized for a good long while now thanks.
this just blows my mind.

spidermanonbroadway.marvel.com/



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FRANCHISE RANKING: The "X-MEN" Movies [Nov. 8th, 2009|07:43 pm]

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[ashmh]



FRANCHISE RANKING: The "X-MEN" Movies

Here is my RANKING of the four "X-MEN" movies.
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Sunday Secrets [Nov. 7th, 2009|09:01 pm]
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(no subject) [Nov. 7th, 2009|09:30 pm]

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Where the Wild Things Are was "okay".
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Bury Me Alive [Nov. 7th, 2009|09:16 pm]

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[alicemeichi]
A portrait of the band, We Are The Fallen.

The butterfly is a classic symbol of rebirth after death. I thought it was appropriate, considering that most of the band are former members of Evanescence.


We Are The Fallen
Acrylic and Digital

All I see is black and cold
As I try to pull you down
To the ground, the ground

You bury me alive
And everybody's got to breathe somehow
Don't leave me, die
Too consumed by your own emptiness and lies


AliceMeichi.com - Illustration Portfolio


This and many other prints of my artwork can be found on my store: store.alicemeichi.com.

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(no subject) [Nov. 8th, 2009|01:18 am]
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(no subject) [Nov. 7th, 2009|07:09 pm]

mozart
Ohhhh G! The hat you sent me is so lovely, but when zombies roam the earth I fear I will not be too stealthy!

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(no subject) [Nov. 8th, 2009|10:38 am]

pictography

[rushofsun]
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(no subject) [Nov. 8th, 2009|10:38 am]

pictography

[rushofsun]


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(no subject) [Nov. 7th, 2009|11:50 pm]

theboysinthesea
[mood | dirty]


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